Worth trying tonight
What to say, word for word
When 'the olden days' come up
“When I was small, we had no tablets. Guess what we did instead.”
Your own childhood is the most accessible history they'll ever meet.
“What do you think kids ate for breakfast back then?”
Everyday details beat famous dates. Breakfast is history a 5-year-old can hold.
“Everything was different, but do you reckon the kids were still ticklish?”
Same feelings, different world: that's the entire insight, planted as a joke.
What's normal at this age
Before anything else: none of this means something is wrong.
'Yesterday' meaning anything from this morning to last Christmas. A working sense of time is years away.
Believing you and the dinosaurs overlapped. Deep time doesn't fit yet, and doesn't need to.
Fascination with your childhood specifically: what you ate, what you watched, what scared you.
Good moments for this story: When your child asks 'What was it like when you were little?'; When they show interest in 'the olden days'; Before visiting historical sites, museums, or cultural events; When you want to develop empathy and perspective-taking; As a bedtime story that opens the imagination to different worlds.
What's actually happening
Historical thinking develops later than most cognitive skills — children under 7 struggle to conceptualise deep time (Barton & Levstik, 2004). But perspective-taking (imagining life as someone else in another context) is a powerful developmental tool that emerges earlier. Wellman et al.'s (2001) meta-analysis showed that 'theory of mind' (understanding that others have different perspectives, knowledge, and feelings) develops between ages 3 and 5, and storybook exposure in these years predicts how strong it is (Mar et al., 2010). Stories set in unfamiliar times or places are well suited to this: they ask the child to imagine a perspective genuinely different from their own.
What parents usually try
Teaching history as facts and dates
Meaningless to young children who can't conceptualise chronological time. Historical empathy, imagining how people felt, is developmentally accessible much earlier than historical chronology (Barton & Levstik, 2004).
Focusing on famous people and events
Less relatable for young children. Everyday life in the past ('What did children eat? Where did they sleep?') gives them something to hold, and investigating ordinary lives is how children first manage real historical thinking (VanSledright, 2002).
Assuming they're too young for history
Children can't grasp timelines, but they can grasp difference and similarity. 'People used to cook over fire instead of stoves' is accessible and fascinating.
What actually helps
The story doesn't teach history — it uses historical imagination to build perspective-taking. The character visits a time where things look different but feelings remain the same. This dual experience (difference in context, similarity in emotion) is what researchers call 'historical empathy' (Endacott & Brooks, 2013), and it's the foundation for understanding that the world is varied, that different isn't wrong, and that people everywhere share fundamental emotional experiences.
What your child hears
Your child travels to a time when things were different — different clothes, different food, different ways of living. They discover that people felt the same feelings, even when everything else was unfamiliar.
Wonder and curiosity — the story uses historical imagination to develop perspective-taking, cultural awareness, and the understanding that the world hasn't always been the way it is now.
A simple three-night plan
One story, three sittings. No preparation, no printables.
Night one: visit the past
Play the story and let the strangeness do the work. Different clothes, different food, same feelings.
Night two: guess why
Listen again and pause where things differ: 'No fridges! Where do you think they kept the milk?' Guessing beats explaining.
Night three: bring out the photos
After the story, show them a photo of you as a child, or ring a grandparent for one story from their childhood. Living history beats any book.
Want the story for night one?
A Time Travellerstory with your child's name in it, ready in about two minutes. You read every word before they hear it.
First story free. No credit card needed.
After the story
The conversation afterwards is where a lot of the good happens. Some openers:
- “What was the most amazing thing about that time?”
- “Would you like to live back then? Why or why not?”
- “What else do you want to know about that time period?”
Try this together: Look up pictures or a short video about the era, or draw what they imagined
The research behind this approach(show)
Educational adventures based on research-backed learning theories.
- Dweck, C. S. (2006). Mindset: The New Psychology of Success. Random House.
- Engel, S. (2015). The Hungry Mind: The Origins of Curiosity in Childhood. Harvard University Press.
- Durlak, J. A., et al. (2011). The impact of enhancing students' social and emotional learning: A meta-analysis of school-based universal interventions. Child Development, 82(1), 405–432.
- CASEL. (2020). CASEL's SEL Framework.
- Bybee, R. W. (2006). The 5E Instructional Model. NSTA.
- Clements, D. H., & Sarama, J. (2009). Learning and Teaching Early Math: The Learning Trajectories Approach. Routledge.